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we all need validation, plus product market fit feels and links your algo fears

testing hypotheses with real humans, the beauty of small sample sizes, and other gems the algorithm won't serve you

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gm and welcome to issue 36—thanks for being here. 🏴‍☠️

Last week I told you about my dramatic Portland blockchain event experience (tldr: carnival games and chanting, not my vibe). This week I’m diving into something way more my speed: real product validation with real humans who might actually use the thing I'm building. It’s Aries energy meets a methodical wtf am I doing.

Speaking of things that are methodical—did you know that the way we measure "virality" in social media is kinda backwards? Most platforms count shares and likes, but actual viral content spreads through what's called “dark social”—private messages, email forwards, and group chats that algorithms can't track. Which means the stuff that's truly connecting people is invisible to the very systems trying to optimize for connection. Which I kinda love.

Also… forward this newsletter to a friend, yeah? K, thanks.

Onward to this week's “I’m building an app at the intersection of web2 and web3” dump.

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***back to my shit***

This past week was all about testing my first hypothesis with my first user group: regular humans who might want to check in at local businesses for perks and rewards. Not crypto natives, not web3 enthusiasts—though let's be real, they also like free coffee and dopamine hits from earning things—just regular humans who might actually use this thing.

First I created a 7-part questionnaire and built it as an Airtable form so that I could easily collect the data. Sample question: “If you could check in at a business and instantly earn a perk or reward, how likely are you to do it?" plus multiple choice on what kinds of perks actually motivate people. Then I did something I've never done before—built sequential Instagram stories with a clear CTA in hopes of getting people to pay attention despite so much noise.

To my surprise, it actually fucking worked. Well, at least for a small percentage it worked, and that’s all I needed.

The incentive structure I ran looked like this:

  1. Early “founders club” access to the app when it launches, and

  2. $3 Venmo'd to you for coffee at your favorite local spot, as a thank-you

I also asked people to tag us when they grab said coffee. That way I can reshare to IG stories and complete a beautiful little validation-to-community loop. Whether or not folks will is tbd.

“The more complex a mechanical assembly, the higher the likelihood that you’ll run into emergent alignment problems that can’t be resolved with brute forcing or jiggling… The only known general way to mitigate this problem is to make all your parts as high-precision as possible. Keep this point in mind, it has bigger implications.”

— Venkatesh Rao, Contraptions & Ribbonfarm

Because I have an email list of roughly 1,500—and because why not test multiple channels while I’m at it—I then recreated the IG stories sequence into a trackable email campaign and sent it out.

Note: even though I worked for an email marketing startup for 2 whole years and know way more about email marketing than I ever wanted to, I still completely fucked up the send. I got too excited and just yeeted the campaign out to an entire list that hadn’t been engaged, cleaned, or pruned in years.

While I did get a good open rate and CTR after hitting send, I was also gifted high bounce and unsubscribe rates, both of which promptly got me blocked on my email platform. Days later, I’m still trying to remedy that genius move.

Back to the results.

consumer validation Airtable form—so legit

I was shocked. People actually responded. Not a ton—21 to be precise—but enough to get real signal through all the fuckshit. Enough to validate some assumptions and obliterate others.

The responses were fascinating. Turns out people are almost as motivated by rewards-based and experiential perks (tokens towards a future purchase, free drink, exclusive access) as they are by discount-based ones. They want the rewards to feel instant, seamless, cumulative, and exclusive . And—while I know this would be quite different among a crypto-native crowd—privacy concerns weren't nearly as big a barrier to adoption as I'd expected, but “too many steps” and notification fatigue absolutely were.

"The most important thing is to test your assumptions early and cheaply. Better to be wrong with 20 responses than wrong with 20,000 users."

— Julie Zhuo, former VP of Product Design at Facebook

Next week I'll be testing with user group #2: local business owners. Different questionnaire, different approach, probably different surprises waiting for me I’m sure. I’ll also share about how I fucked up the simple task of sending $3 to each person who responded to the survey, and how doing so reminded of something important about people.

tbh, aside from writing Babe, this whole validation process feels like the most grounding thing I've done in months. There's something deeply satisfying about moving from "I think people want this" to "here's what 21 random humans told me they want." Small sample size + big clarity = I’d fuck with this.

consumer validation data, so fucking cool to see

Some links your feed fears:

The Tyranny of Small Decisions — This economics concept explains how individually rational decisions can lead to collectively irrational outcomes. Relevant for everything from climate change to why your Twitter feed is a hellscape.

Survivorship Bias in Product Development — Why we only hear about the startups that worked and how that skews our entire understanding of what makes products successful.

Excerpts From the Original Intention Economy Manifesto — Doc Searls' 2012 piece that predicted how consumers would eventually want to signal their intentions to businesses rather than being tracked. Eerily prescient and wholly overlapped with the web3 ethos around privacy.

Local First Software — A gorgeous exploration of software that prioritizes user ownership and works offline. The future of apps that don't hold your data hostage.

Truth in Inconvenience — Venkatesh Rao's brilliant piece connecting ZIRP, AI panic, and the meaning crisis through the lens of Meccano vs. Lego. If you're building anything in 2025, this will rewire how you think about friction and reality testing.

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And that's issue 36 in the books. Thanks for watching me navigate this startup thing in real time—send me your weird links and validation stories, and I'll see you here next week.

xoxo,

lw

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Next week in Babe: More oversharing about building shit, plus links your algo won’t serve you.